Something else that usually happens when a woman jumps into bed with her ex is that he will start dating someone else and dump her once more. In point of fact, it’s not dumping to him in any way. She was just a mere sex partner to him, after all anyone can pay a girl to have sex with him, but in his case he got it from an intimate partner – not a girlfriend. He doesn’t see both of you in a relationship at all. The fact that he met someone he loves and hopes to have a relationship with, he has to discontinue the sexual meeting with his ex for the reason that he wants to be fully committed to his new relationship.
It’s perfectly fine to have a frank talk about what kind of sex you find full of passion. Perhaps your idea is to have a meaningful conversation over a glass of wine before making love; perhaps it is for both of you to take showers and come to bed squeaky clean for each other. Could it be that you like to tease each other? Or just be blunt and tell your partner you want to have a go?
When we read or watch pornographic materials, it often cultivates adulterous desires, and that may eventually lead us to perform adulterous acts. Thus, to prevent ourselves from realizing our wrong desires and thoughts, we are to focus on only good thoughts in the first place: "whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things." (Philippians 4:8, WEB)
Try aggressive sex. If you are usually passive in bed, trying initiating sex. Give your partner a treat and show how much you care all at the same time. After all, sometimes what’s hot is ignoring convention. Instead of sweet Valentine sex, try it tough.
The more fit you look in your age, the more women gets more attracted to you. But don't overdo it or you will loose your sex appeal. Over grown or blown up muscles does not attract the women. A natural and well built physical appearance will be perfect in the eyes of girls.
For those who are learning the art of intercourse it is important to learn self-control and master mind over ejaculation from the beginning. Get to know the human body and how it responds to stimulus better. Use more foreplay and less penetration; don’t be in such a hurry.